Finally, it's my last day here in our UP Ayala Land Techno Hub site. I have been handling this site as the HR Head for 6 months. It has been my second home since I left Makati. I've seen this site grow from 200+ to 730+ employees. I've been used to the greenery, to the low-rise buildings and the quiet lunch and coffee breaks that I spend alone whether in the office pantry or the nearby restos and coffee shops. I've been used to the long, quiet walks going to the retail area, often hanging out in the friendly National Bookstore. But now I have to turn my back and say goodbye to it all. I have to leave the nice people I've met behind - my staff of 2 newbies in the company, the friendly guards, receptionists, maintenance, IT, Clinic and Facilities peeps. All because of the feeling that I need to move on. That I have done what I should, given all I can, and there's nothing more I can offer. I requested to be transferred back to Makati because no matter what I do here, I'll be stuck. Some people, for some reason, just seem so hard to work with. What's worse is that they don't seem that way when you're together. But they say different things - sometimes bad things about you that are often baseless, to other people. Some people just don't want other people to move up. And some people choose to listen to them one-sidedly. And so, after spreading myself too thinly, waiting for that move to happen, I felt that was it. I was stuck and I have to get out of here. Fast. I'm just so glad that there are still some good people around -- people who listen, people who care. On Monday, I will be in another world. Though I will not be managing a site anymore, I will be working with the same friendly faces I used to work wih. I know it will be fun. Fun because I will be working with the Makati team again. Fun because our new office is next to a new mall. Yes, I will be working in Glorietta 5. And I finally get to have a better schedule because I will no longer have to extend long hours at work. I am happier now, despite having been in a thankless work environment, I can finally say that I am home - home in Makati. Though this is a temporary assignment, do wish me luck in my new site. By the way, here are the last photos I took on my last day...
April 29, 2009
April 27, 2009
Addicted to Facebook!
Oh yeah! My husband and I have been addicted to Facebook! We've been taking turns on his slow wireless internet connection and sleeping late just to do our respective fb stuff. Tsk.. He is a certified Mafia Wars addict slash Poker semi-addict, while I so enjoy answering the quizzes, top 5 and know-it-all challenges. How I wish we can have a faster DSL connection at home. But the last time we inquired, we were informed by all the DSL providers that our area is not DSL ready. Wtf?! We live in Cubao, near Katipunan and Libis, but we are not DSL ready?! That is so sad! We'll try our luck again on Friday (yes, Friday's a HOLIDAY!), at PLDT's DSL promo. Sana naman pwede na! =)
April 25, 2009
Camella Homes Ad - Bulilit
This video is sooo cute!!!!
Bulilit, bulilit sanay sa masikip. Kung kumilos, kumilos ang liit liit. Bulilit. Kung kumilos ang liit liit...
Hope to have a baby this cute soon!
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Bulilit, bulilit sanay sa masikip. Kung kumilos, kumilos ang liit liit. Bulilit. Kung kumilos ang liit liit...
Hope to have a baby this cute soon!
April 24, 2009
Happy Birthday Ahmee!
Ahmee is my mom. It's a term of endearment I derived from "mommy". She celebrated her birthday yesterday. We are here on a long vacation in my parents' house as if it were a weekend already. We are usually here on weekends. But this week is different. It's because Ahmee's birthday falls on a Thursday. And we have been here since Wednesday. To my Ahmee, Happy birthday! I pray that you will be able to live the life you really want when you retire - but I hope you'll retire soon. Ahmee is a typical employee - not a Robert Kiyosaki believer like me. She's been working so hard and work has become a very big part of her. But I really wish she would be able to see the other beautiful things that life has to offer. I wish she would be able to travel, cook (she so loves to cook), shop and visit the salon more often. Happy birthday once again Ahmee! Luv u! :)
April 22, 2009
Blood Tests done today!
Author: ian
| Posted at: 1:19 PM |
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Miscarriage,
Reproductive Immunology
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I finally had my tests done today. My husband and I went to the Reproductive Immunology clinic of Dr. Ed Lim in TM Kalaw Center this morning for a series of blood tests that would help us determine what caused my 2 miscarriages and what treatment should be done so that we can have a baby soon.
A Chinese-looking Med Tech took my blood samples - yes, samples! She had to fill 5 test tubes for these tests. 3 will be sent to the US for the Natural Killer Cells testing, the other 2 will be left here, as they will do the other tests locally.
As mentioned in my previous post, we had to pay a huge amount for these tests. The tests that will be done locally cost us P12,900. We also had to pay USD568 for the test for Natural Killer Cells, which will be done at the Rosalind Franklin University in Chicago, IL. The shipping cost of my blood sample that will be sent to the US was P5,000.
Results will be available in two weeks. We really pray for good results. We also hope that we can afford the treatment. We really want to have a baby soon.
A Chinese-looking Med Tech took my blood samples - yes, samples! She had to fill 5 test tubes for these tests. 3 will be sent to the US for the Natural Killer Cells testing, the other 2 will be left here, as they will do the other tests locally.
As mentioned in my previous post, we had to pay a huge amount for these tests. The tests that will be done locally cost us P12,900. We also had to pay USD568 for the test for Natural Killer Cells, which will be done at the Rosalind Franklin University in Chicago, IL. The shipping cost of my blood sample that will be sent to the US was P5,000.
Results will be available in two weeks. We really pray for good results. We also hope that we can afford the treatment. We really want to have a baby soon.
April 20, 2009
Susan Boyle Made Me Cry
It was only last week when I saw the video of Susan Boyle on youtube. I heard about her from the people at work and saw news about her from Yahoo, which happens to be my homepage whenever I surf the net. But I didn't really got to see her video singing Fantine's I Dreamed a Dream until last week. What a powerful voice she has! I was amazed by how effortless she sang. And yes, the people who were making faces when she was being introduced, the people who gave her insulting looks, were the same people who gave her a standing ovation when they heard her sing. And that was what made me cry. She has proven once again that we should not judge a book by its cover.
Here are the lyrics of the song I Dreamed a Dream from Les Miserables.
Here are the lyrics of the song I Dreamed a Dream from Les Miserables.
I dreamed a dream in time gone by
When hope was high
And life worth living
I dreamed that love would never die
I dreamed that God would be forgiving
Then I was young and unafraid
And dreams were made and used and wasted
There was no ransom to be paid
No song unsung, no wine untasted
But the tigers come at night
With their voices soft as thunder
As they tear your hope apart
And they turn your dream to shame
He slept a summer by my side
He filled my days with endless wonder
He took my childhood in his stride
But he was gone when autumn came
And still I dream he'll come to me
That we will live the years together
But there are dreams that cannot be
And there are storms we cannot weather
I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living
So different now from what it seemed
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed.
When hope was high
And life worth living
I dreamed that love would never die
I dreamed that God would be forgiving
Then I was young and unafraid
And dreams were made and used and wasted
There was no ransom to be paid
No song unsung, no wine untasted
But the tigers come at night
With their voices soft as thunder
As they tear your hope apart
And they turn your dream to shame
He slept a summer by my side
He filled my days with endless wonder
He took my childhood in his stride
But he was gone when autumn came
And still I dream he'll come to me
That we will live the years together
But there are dreams that cannot be
And there are storms we cannot weather
I had a dream my life would be
So different from this hell I'm living
So different now from what it seemed
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed.
April 10, 2009
One Saturday Morning at the La Mesa Eco Park
The whole family went to La Mesa Eco Park one Saturday morning last month It was the second anniversary of my brother Bonjong and her girlfriend Len. They invited us to come with them. We spent the whole day enjoying the food that mom prepared in between long walks and photo shoots. Here are some of the pictures we that we took.
Mom and Dad
Hubby and me - reminiscing our pre-nup shots October last year
Second childhood
Bonjong and Len - the anniversary celebrators
Dandh and Lani - the youngest couple in the family
Partner partner! :)
April 2, 2009
Recurrent Pregnancy Loss and Reproductive Immunology
Author: ian
| Posted at: 1:42 PM |
Filed Under:
Miscarriage,
Reproductive Immunology,
RPL
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I mentioned in my previous post that I consulted an OB who is specializing in Reproductive Endocrinology. She told me that having 2 MCs in a row is a manifestation of possible immunologic problems. Based on her explanation as well as based on my research, immunologic problems hinder the development of the baby inside the mother's uterus, and in worst cases, killing the baby in the process. It usually happens during the first trimester and if not treated, the immune system tends to get stronger and have more killing capacity resulting in another MC.
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According to my new OB, there are 5 Categories of Immunologic Problems.
Category 1 is called Alloimmune Antibody. A layman's explanation of this is when the mother's body treats the father's blood as her own. A more scientific explanation would be that in a mother's placenta, there are HLA antigens that come from the father. Alloimmune antibody happens when the couple shares DQ alpha antigens in common. The G molecule put on the placental cells by the father is too similar to the G molecule that the woman's father put on her placenta to sustain her in her mother's uterus. As a result, she does not make the blocking antibody, the baby dies, and her immune system recognizes the placenta as "altered self" (i.e., a cancer cell).
Treatment for this is called LIT (leukocyte immunization therapy), which may cost up to P70,000 per session, and may require a couple of sessions until the mother's cells forms an antibody against the father's.
Category 2 is Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APAS). Studies show that 22% of women with recurrent pregnancy losses have antiphospholipid antibodies. The incidence of this problem increases in women by 15% with each pregnancy that is lost. It is a significant consequence of infertility, implantation failures and recurrent pregnancy losses. APAS does not have a known etiology.
Antiphospholipid antibodies can cause thrombosis or blood clots in the blood vessels of the placenta. As we know, the placenta supplies the needed nutrition to the growing fetus. However, in an APAS case, with thrombosis happening in the placenta, it is unable to supply the fetus with the nutrition it needs, so the fetus may stop growing and may eventually die. There are some instances though when the fetus survives, but due to the intrauterine growth restriction in the mother's uterus, the baby may be too small at birth.
A damaged placenta may also lead to pre-eclampsia in the mother. Pre-eclampsia is a dangerous condition resulting in high blood pressure, edema (swelling) or kidney malfunction.
Treatment of APAS usually involves a small daily dose of Aspirin, which acts as anticoagulant, since patients with APAS have "sticky or thick blood". When a woman with APAS gets pregnant, she may also be given heparin. Heparin is a blood thinner. It can only be given by injection. The needle is very thin, and is put just under the skin. Most patients can do this by themselves. Heparin decreases the risk of thrombosis and pregnancy loss.
Category 3 is Positive Anti Nuclear Antibody (ANA). Women with this problem need antibodies to DNA, or DNA breakdown products in the embryo or in the pregnancy. These antibodies form first in the blood as IgM. As the problem gets worse, they appear as IgG and live in the lymphatic system and lymph nodes. With more losses, they form IgA antibodies which have their home and action in the organs including the uterus. These antibodies can be against pure double stranded DNA (ds DNA), single-stranded DNA (ss DNA), or smaller molecules called polynucleotides and histones that make up the single strands. Autoantibody to DNA leads to inflammation in the placenta.
My doctor said that if my tests turn positive in Category 3 (I really hope not), I will be given steroids.
Category 4 is called Antisperm Antibody. In this case, the mother's body rejects the sperm. When antisperm antibodies develop, they will inactivate or attack sperm from the husband and any donor (i.e., they are not partner specific). The presence of antisperm antibodies in women strongly predicts that she will also have Category 5 Immune Problems.
Category 5 is the most difficult and most expensive to cure, according to my doctor. Category 5 involves the Natural Killer Cells. This killer cells sees the growing embryo as a threat to the mother's body, like cancer, thereby ends up killing or expelling the embryo.
I will be undergoing tests to check on these Categories and to find answers to my recurrent miscarriages. The tests will be done in a clinic in TM Kalaw Avenue, Manila. The first set would cost us about P12,500. This will be a comprehensive blood test, covering the first 3 categories. My doctor did not request for a test for Category 4 anymore (Antisperm), since I do not any problem with fertilization and conception. The test for Category 5 (Natural Killer Cells) is more expensive. It will cost us USD560 as the test will be done in the US. My blood sample will be shipped, which costs P5,000.
Right now, my husband and I are still in the process of raising funds for those tests. What worries us is that the test will just be the first step in this journey. Treatment and further tests will be another. We admit that in these difficult times, it would be really hard for us to afford these tests and treatments. But we know that God will help us get through this tough situation. God will send us help from above. Our ardent wish is to have a baby of our own and to raise a happy family. So simple. Yet it seems so hard..
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